fix problem with you-are-missing message and refactor other messages in onboard meeting

src/views/ContactsView.vue

@@ -30,12 +30,13 @@
         >
           <fa icon="envelope-open-text" class="fa-fw text-2xl" />
         </router-link>
-        <router-link
-          :to="{ name: 'onboard-meeting-setup' }"
+
+        <button
+          @click="showOnboardMeetingDialog()"
           class="flex items-center bg-gradient-to-b from-green-400 to-green-700 shadow-[inset_0_-1px_0_0_rgba(0,0,0,0.5)] text-white px-1.5 py-1 mr-1 rounded-md"
         >
           <fa icon="chair" class="fa-fw text-2xl" />
-        </router-link>
+        </button>
       </span>
       <span v-else class="flex">
         <span
@@ -1398,5 +1399,57 @@ export default class ContactsView extends Vue {
       5000,
     );
   }
+
+  private async showOnboardMeetingDialog() {
+    try {
+      // First check if they're in a meeting
+      const headers = await getHeaders(this.activeDid);
+      const memberResponse = await this.axios.get(
+        this.apiServer + "/api/partner/groupOnboardMember",
+        { headers }
+      );
+
+      if (memberResponse.data.data) {
+        // They're in a meeting, check if they're the host
+        const hostResponse = await this.axios.get(
+          this.apiServer + "/api/partner/groupOnboard",
+          { headers }
+        );
+
+        if (hostResponse.data.data) {
+          // They're the host, take them to setup
+          (this.$router as Router).push({ name: "onboard-meeting-setup" });
+        } else {
+          // They're not the host, take them to list
+          (this.$router as Router).push({ name: "onboard-meeting-list" });
+        }
+      } else {
+        // They're not in a meeting, show the dialog
+        this.$notify(
+          {
+            group: "modal",
+            type: "confirm",
+            title: "Onboarding Meeting",
+            text: "Would you like to start a new meeting?",
+            onYes: () => {
+              (this.$router as Router).push({ name: "onboard-meeting-setup" });
+            },
+            yesText: "Start New Meeting",
+            onNo: () => {
+              (this.$router as Router).push({ name: "onboard-meeting-list" });
+            },
+            noText: "Join Existing Meeting"
+          },
+          -1
+        );
+      }
+    } catch (error) {
+      logConsoleAndDb("Error checking meeting status:" + errorStringForLog(error));
+      this.danger(
+        "There was an error checking your meeting status.",
+        "Meeting Error"
+      );
+    }
+  }
 }
 </script>