disable SQLite in Java & Swift (since they don't compile) & add SQL queueing on startup

At this point, the app compiles and runs in Android & iOS but DB operations fail.

ios/App/Podfile

@@ -27,4 +27,9 @@ end
 
 post_install do |installer|
   assertDeploymentTarget(installer)
+  installer.pods_project.targets.each do |target|
+    target.build_configurations.each do |config|
+      config.build_settings['EXCLUDED_ARCHS[sdk=iphonesimulator*]'] = 'arm64'
+    end
+  end
 end