update the onboarding help blurb

src/libs/util.ts

@@ -16,7 +16,7 @@ export const isGlobalUri = (uri: string) => {
 // If you edit this, check that the numbers still line up on the side in the alert (on mobile, too),
 // and make sure they can take all actions while the notification shows.
 export const ONBOARD_MESSAGE =
-  "1) Check that they've entered their name. 2) Go to the scanning page: use the Contacts page and click on the QR icon at the top, and then scan and register them. 3) Have them go to that page and scan you.";
+  "1) Check that they have entered their name on the profile page in their device. 2) Add them to your Contacts by scanning with the QR icon that is by the input box. 3) Click the person icon to register them. 4) Have them go to their Contact page and scan your QR to add you to their list.";
 
 export const sendTestThroughPushServer = async (
   subscription: PushSubscription,